I think sex should be fun.I mean if two people are only doing it for the sole purpose of a physical release then so be it.If all they want to do is fuck around let them be.It comes down to the two (or more) entitites involved.Quickies are more or less for times when the guy has a boner and the girl wants to get rid of it and they dont have alot of time for longer coitus.And its good to try out alot of things in regards to sex from the positions to paraphenilias,role playing,outfits,foods,places and such.Cause a person needs to know what they like.What gets them off and enticed them and how they like their sex.Be open to trying new things and exploring yourself.You cant expect someone else to please you if you yourself dont know how to get yourself off or how you like your itches to be scrathed.I believe if your not in a relationship then go ahead and enjoy your sexual life.Considering men peak sexually in their teens and women in their 30s means by the time you get married you should know what you like and your boundaries thus making sure you have a healthy sex life in your marriage and so on and since you'll know how to spice things up when they get blunt.Think of it like sharpening a knife.After sometime even a new knife gets blunt and needs sharpening.
Get to know your partners body what makes them itch and how to scratch it.Get to know all their body parts.What happens when you put your tongue on their earlobe.What reaction they get when you tell them some intricate naughty things about your outfit or what about you (be it body posture,smell,gesture and such) that drives them up the wall.Personally speaking what gets me off is seeing how I get a girl off by not even being in her.Its a trick and a challenge.And I love challenges.Satisfaction isnt just about being in or someone being in you.It has to do with everything.Sex starts from the non verbal to the language,tone,words.You need to set the mood so as to satisfy your partner physically,mentally and emotionally.
Jah Bless
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