Eyes ablaze with fire,
With each passing second my psyche soaring higher,
Seeing through the conscious of being whose essence is overseeing my very actions from the radiation of its presence
How can I put the images, colors and feelings into words
When I myself am being guided like a blind man in the dead of the night with only the sound of the beat of his heart as his only companion
As I sit here starring at these words appearing on the screen
Remembering the night terrors and awaking with screams
The detachments from my body as I looked down saw the Earth, Sun, Moon and Stars.
Looking for peace and solace in the galaxies afar,
A better world where pain hurt and suffering are non existent
Alas my search is in vain and I plummet back to my body
But now this presence reminds me that even in dire of times SHE is always there
Not far just a mere distance from my touch
Who is she you ask. This presence I talk of
She is the one who covers me with sweet melodies and sounds when the outer world is a menace and your own heart is screaming
She is from when we still have an umbilical cord
She talks to use always
Reaching into our very soul
Elevating, reminding
Making you cry
Making you wonder
Making question
She is both a blessing and a curse
A savior and destroyer
She is why I write this to you know
She is the reason we can spend a quarter of our day without tiring
She is beauty, torture, pain, love, old, new, wise, immature
She is a depiction of the world in many ways
Some good some bad some true some false
Some real some a dream
Regardless of all her traits she is one thing
True. She brings the truth in all of us
She makes us feel things, lets us express them
She does not laugh when we do her wrong
She lets you enjoy her to your heart’s content
Each one of us sees and listens to her differently but however it is she touches us all
She is the one who soothes us
She is our therapy and our addiction
Our medicine and affliction
She has been there since the beginning of time
In some ways she has evolved and in others she has changed with the times but still remainded the same
She is a man, a woman, a child, an animal, a thing or nothing at all
Beautiful or ugly
Serene or violent
Small or big
She can be anything and everything
Or nothing at all
She is. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
MUSIC.
Think about it people.
Jah Bless.
Sunday 26 June 2011
Wednesday 22 June 2011
Quotes
"We need to give each other the space to grow, to be ourselves, to
exercise our diversity. We need to give each other space so that we may
both give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity,
joy, healing, and inclusion".
Max de Pree
Amat Victoria Curam - Victory Loves Preparation
“The First sign of beginning of Understanding is the wish to die”. Franz Kafka
"Victory attained by violence is tantamount to defeat for it is momentary." Mahatma Gandhi
“It is better to be violent if there is violence in our hearts than to put on the cloak of non violence to cover impotence”. Mahatma Gandhi
“The measure of a man is what he does with power”. Plato
“Always do sober what you said you’d d drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut”. Ernest Hemingway
"Try not to become a man of success rather a man of value." Albert Einstein
"Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt and dance like no one is watching." Randall G Leighton
"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so
long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see
the one that has opened for us." Alexander Graham Bell
"You've got to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad,
love what you've got, and remember what you had. Always
forgive, but never forget. Learn from mistakes, but never
regret."
"The darkest places in hell are reserved for those who maintain
their neutrality in times of moral crisis." - Italian poet Dante Alighieri
"The only normal people are the
ones you don't know very well." By Alfred Adler (1870-1937), Austrian
psychologist.
"People are like stained glass windows.They sparkle and shine when the sun's out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is light within." By Elisabeth Kubler-Ross (1926-2004) Swiss American Psychiatrist & author.
"No one can teach me who I am.You can describe parts of me but who I am and what I need..these are things I have to find out myself." -Chinua Achebe
exercise our diversity. We need to give each other space so that we may
both give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity,
joy, healing, and inclusion".
Max de Pree
Amat Victoria Curam - Victory Loves Preparation
“The First sign of beginning of Understanding is the wish to die”. Franz Kafka
"Victory attained by violence is tantamount to defeat for it is momentary." Mahatma Gandhi
“It is better to be violent if there is violence in our hearts than to put on the cloak of non violence to cover impotence”. Mahatma Gandhi
“The measure of a man is what he does with power”. Plato
“Always do sober what you said you’d d drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut”. Ernest Hemingway
"Try not to become a man of success rather a man of value." Albert Einstein
"Work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt and dance like no one is watching." Randall G Leighton
"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so
long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see
the one that has opened for us." Alexander Graham Bell
"You've got to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad,
love what you've got, and remember what you had. Always
forgive, but never forget. Learn from mistakes, but never
regret."
"The darkest places in hell are reserved for those who maintain
their neutrality in times of moral crisis." - Italian poet Dante Alighieri
"The only normal people are the
ones you don't know very well." By Alfred Adler (1870-1937), Austrian
psychologist.
"People are like stained glass windows.They sparkle and shine when the sun's out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is light within." By Elisabeth Kubler-Ross (1926-2004) Swiss American Psychiatrist & author.
"No one can teach me who I am.You can describe parts of me but who I am and what I need..these are things I have to find out myself." -Chinua Achebe
Thought I should mention
This is another one of those talks that I have to warn people in advance because it WILL offend some people especially those of you who consider yourselves better or Holier than thou.
A mate of mine mentioned something interesting today about being “smart”. He was in a situation where he was listening to music with a book in front of him when his roommate told him that since its exam week he should switch off the music and concentrate on what he was doing. Apparently for you to be smart you must be all about the books, no fun and what not. WRONG. Here is the reality to each his/her own. There is a difference between getting the high grades and succeeding in life. Here is an interesting fact Albert Einstein was a HIGH SCHOOL DROP OUT. But look at what he contributed to life. The thing is just because you get excellent grades and all those academic honors in reality you really are not that much better than me. Trust me I know people who were or are numero Uno in their classes but they can’t do shit in the real world. Just because your grades are magnificent that doesn’t mean that once you are done with school you are guranteed to be all that once you graduate.
Also I know guys who never really made it all that well in school or some who dropped out (e.g. Bill Gates) who have made it big in life. You see even when applying for a job people ask about work experience actually there are some jobs that require work experience otherwise you are under qualified (regardless of the honors degree/masters you possess). Don’t get me wrong people education is important that’s a fact but that doesn’t mean that cause you are the first in class means you are going to be top honcho when you done in school
Besides let’s be realistic most of the exams and tests we do here (Africa) are standardized thus limiting some of the students from shinning or excelling to their full potential. Furthermore we judge a person intelligence from those tests meaning those with low marks are considered stupid or dumb which may not be the case since those tests don’t test aptitude or the IQ of the people. And in some cases you find those kids who don’t do well actually have a learning disability and we label them as idiots while in actuality we should be encouraging them and trying to give them the motivation and push to better themselves.
. So there are those who due to what so ever reason (parent’s cash, cars, family names, clothes those kind of things) think of themselves higher than others. Always commenting about others in a negative way and joking at people. Thinking and saying they are above others and everything. Well. . . . News Flash you dumb twats we are in the same flipping Uni so if you are so much better than me why are we in the same place again. Could it be you flanked out of those cool Universities out of Kenya or possibly are not trusted enough to be too far from home cause you are irresponsible, immature, or are you just a want to be. Making yourself seem better than others just to mask and cover your own shortcomings?
Another are the religious groups. Those little sects that tell you how unholy you are that they are better than you since they follow in this righteous path and so on. Some of them are actually really awesome people who try and help others. Truly and honestly but others. . . . . . Well they nothing more than pains in the ass. As in seriously who are you to pass judgment on me. I doubt if any religion (not the ones I have been exposed to) gives you the right to point your finger at me. Yes I may do wrong instead of condoning me doesn’t your holy book or scriptures tell you to help instead. Your own sins you find justification for but others peoples well those are blown into insane proportions.
Lastly is that some people think they are better than others cause they give money for aid and charity. Now don’t get me wrong this is a good thing and I encourage it. But I mean those people who only give money, get their name mentioned and that’s that. They don’t even care what they are giving the money for it just matters they get mentioned and so on. I give the little I have but when it comes to orphans for instance don’t you think that sacrificing your own time to go volunteer at the homes, playing with the children would be better. Now in regards to the kind of people I mentioned earlier they seem to think that they give to the needy because the needy are beneath them so that’s why they won’t give anything more than money or be caught dead helping them. Give cause of an open heart not cause of what you personaly receive from it. Anyways that’s about it for now.
Jah Bless
A mate of mine mentioned something interesting today about being “smart”. He was in a situation where he was listening to music with a book in front of him when his roommate told him that since its exam week he should switch off the music and concentrate on what he was doing. Apparently for you to be smart you must be all about the books, no fun and what not. WRONG. Here is the reality to each his/her own. There is a difference between getting the high grades and succeeding in life. Here is an interesting fact Albert Einstein was a HIGH SCHOOL DROP OUT. But look at what he contributed to life. The thing is just because you get excellent grades and all those academic honors in reality you really are not that much better than me. Trust me I know people who were or are numero Uno in their classes but they can’t do shit in the real world. Just because your grades are magnificent that doesn’t mean that once you are done with school you are guranteed to be all that once you graduate.
Also I know guys who never really made it all that well in school or some who dropped out (e.g. Bill Gates) who have made it big in life. You see even when applying for a job people ask about work experience actually there are some jobs that require work experience otherwise you are under qualified (regardless of the honors degree/masters you possess). Don’t get me wrong people education is important that’s a fact but that doesn’t mean that cause you are the first in class means you are going to be top honcho when you done in school
Besides let’s be realistic most of the exams and tests we do here (Africa) are standardized thus limiting some of the students from shinning or excelling to their full potential. Furthermore we judge a person intelligence from those tests meaning those with low marks are considered stupid or dumb which may not be the case since those tests don’t test aptitude or the IQ of the people. And in some cases you find those kids who don’t do well actually have a learning disability and we label them as idiots while in actuality we should be encouraging them and trying to give them the motivation and push to better themselves.
. So there are those who due to what so ever reason (parent’s cash, cars, family names, clothes those kind of things) think of themselves higher than others. Always commenting about others in a negative way and joking at people. Thinking and saying they are above others and everything. Well. . . . News Flash you dumb twats we are in the same flipping Uni so if you are so much better than me why are we in the same place again. Could it be you flanked out of those cool Universities out of Kenya or possibly are not trusted enough to be too far from home cause you are irresponsible, immature, or are you just a want to be. Making yourself seem better than others just to mask and cover your own shortcomings?
Another are the religious groups. Those little sects that tell you how unholy you are that they are better than you since they follow in this righteous path and so on. Some of them are actually really awesome people who try and help others. Truly and honestly but others. . . . . . Well they nothing more than pains in the ass. As in seriously who are you to pass judgment on me. I doubt if any religion (not the ones I have been exposed to) gives you the right to point your finger at me. Yes I may do wrong instead of condoning me doesn’t your holy book or scriptures tell you to help instead. Your own sins you find justification for but others peoples well those are blown into insane proportions.
Lastly is that some people think they are better than others cause they give money for aid and charity. Now don’t get me wrong this is a good thing and I encourage it. But I mean those people who only give money, get their name mentioned and that’s that. They don’t even care what they are giving the money for it just matters they get mentioned and so on. I give the little I have but when it comes to orphans for instance don’t you think that sacrificing your own time to go volunteer at the homes, playing with the children would be better. Now in regards to the kind of people I mentioned earlier they seem to think that they give to the needy because the needy are beneath them so that’s why they won’t give anything more than money or be caught dead helping them. Give cause of an open heart not cause of what you personaly receive from it. Anyways that’s about it for now.
Jah Bless
Things That Make You Feel Old...
1. Windows XP was released TEN years ago, in 2001.
2. The “new” Millennium is more than a decade old.
3. Pierce Brosnan last acted as James Bond 9 years ago.
4. It’s been 10 years since 9/11
5. The Matrix came out 12 years ago, Keanu Reeves is 46 today
6. Mother Theresa and Lady Diana have been dead for 14 years.
7. Macaulay Culkin is 30 today. “Home Alone” came out over 20 years ago.
8. Terminator 2 is 20 years old. Edward Furlong who portrayed kid John Connor is 33 now.
9. Sean Connery is 80 years old and retired.
10. The youngest Spice Girl is 35, the oldest Backstreet Boy 39, Gwen Stefani is 41, Madonna 52
11. The first Harry Potter book came out 14 years ago!
12. The first season of F.R.I.E.N.D.S was aired 17 years ago!
13. ‘Kids’ born in 1993 can legally drive, drink and vote this year.
14. Jurassic Park is older than Justin Bieber.
15. Bryan Adams’ cult song “Summer of 69″ was released 26 years ago.
16. Kids whom you remember in their diapers posting their pics on Facebook.
17. Facebook has been around for 7 years.
So when J.lo says " its a new generation of party people " she is NOT referring to us :| :'(
2. The “new” Millennium is more than a decade old.
3. Pierce Brosnan last acted as James Bond 9 years ago.
4. It’s been 10 years since 9/11
5. The Matrix came out 12 years ago, Keanu Reeves is 46 today
6. Mother Theresa and Lady Diana have been dead for 14 years.
7. Macaulay Culkin is 30 today. “Home Alone” came out over 20 years ago.
8. Terminator 2 is 20 years old. Edward Furlong who portrayed kid John Connor is 33 now.
9. Sean Connery is 80 years old and retired.
10. The youngest Spice Girl is 35, the oldest Backstreet Boy 39, Gwen Stefani is 41, Madonna 52
11. The first Harry Potter book came out 14 years ago!
12. The first season of F.R.I.E.N.D.S was aired 17 years ago!
13. ‘Kids’ born in 1993 can legally drive, drink and vote this year.
14. Jurassic Park is older than Justin Bieber.
15. Bryan Adams’ cult song “Summer of 69″ was released 26 years ago.
16. Kids whom you remember in their diapers posting their pics on Facebook.
17. Facebook has been around for 7 years.
So when J.lo says " its a new generation of party people " she is NOT referring to us :| :'(
Monday 20 June 2011
Being Human
To be human is to be flawed. We were not made perfect but we do spend our time trying to attain some sort of perfection in school, with friends, sport etc, Its that drive, the force that pushes us in trying to attain that little bit more that has made us evolve and continues to guide us. Ironically it is our imperfections that makes us perfect. If you have perfected the art of being lazy and not doing your chores then you would be imperfect at being resposible. Being human means you will make mistakes, you will fall and the world will treat you unfairly one way or the other. But you must pick yourself up, brush the dirt of your shoulder and find a way to go on. It is part of our growth. It is not a fair and just world we live in. Its not easy either although it may seem others have it easier than others. A problem is a problem regardless of how small it may seem or has been made to look. A big problem is nothing more than small unresolved problems that have integrated and now have become this big thing. Try solving each problem as it comes, dont go to sleep mad at people or letting them be mad at you cause it may be the last night for either of you. Try live eachday like it could be your last and leave back no regrets. Regardless of how small a thing may be if it means something to you then hold on to it and anything you can to make it grow and flourish. Make mistakes, mess up, pick yourself up and let those be lessons you learn from.
Only a man who does nothig makes no mistakes.
Jah Bless
Only a man who does nothig makes no mistakes.
Jah Bless
Saturday 18 June 2011
Interesting aspects about kissing
Came across this it seemed imteresting so I thought I would share.Enjoy
1.There are tons of nerve endings. .in your lips (100 times more than in your fingertips!)
that stimulate desire. That's why smooching before, during, and after sex can be extremely
arousing and satisfying. 2. Forty Percent of men say that. .a really long, steamy kiss will get them immediately ready
for sex. 3. Pay attention to those "See Ya Later" pecks. If your guy routinely only gives you a quick
kiss on the cheek when saying good-bye, it could be that he's guarded and doesn't emote
easily. If this is a more recent development, it's a warning sign; he may be feeling
ambivalent about the relationship. 4. Instantly turn up the kissing intimacy by. .closing the "A-frame": a smooching stance in
which you and your guy are in the middle of a smooch but your hips are a mile apart. By
pressing your hips together, the degree of desire quickly rises. 5. The Best way to kiss a guy's ear? Kiss and suck on his earlobe for a moment and then
trace the outline of his ear with the tip of your tongue. (Bonus points if you whisper
something naughty to him.) 6. Men initiate "Open-Mouth Kissing" to transfer libido-boosting testosterone to their partner.
So when he's getting a little more aggressive, it's not just about his desire — he wants you to be a bit more amorous too. 7. Men are more than twice as likely. .to have sex with a bad kisser than are women. 8. When coy kisses Aren't Going To Cut It. .here's why you should let loose: Passionate
kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more
excited, and making it easier for you to reach orgasm. 9. Fifty-Four Percent of women. .between the ages of 18 and 24 say they've kissed another
girl. That number drops to 43 percent for those between 25 and 34. 10. During the middle ages people signed legal contracts. .by making an "X" on the
document and then kissing it to pledge their honor. That's how XX became shorthand for a
smooch. Today at 6:59p
1.There are tons of nerve endings. .in your lips (100 times more than in your fingertips!)
that stimulate desire. That's why smooching before, during, and after sex can be extremely
arousing and satisfying. 2. Forty Percent of men say that. .a really long, steamy kiss will get them immediately ready
for sex. 3. Pay attention to those "See Ya Later" pecks. If your guy routinely only gives you a quick
kiss on the cheek when saying good-bye, it could be that he's guarded and doesn't emote
easily. If this is a more recent development, it's a warning sign; he may be feeling
ambivalent about the relationship. 4. Instantly turn up the kissing intimacy by. .closing the "A-frame": a smooching stance in
which you and your guy are in the middle of a smooch but your hips are a mile apart. By
pressing your hips together, the degree of desire quickly rises. 5. The Best way to kiss a guy's ear? Kiss and suck on his earlobe for a moment and then
trace the outline of his ear with the tip of your tongue. (Bonus points if you whisper
something naughty to him.) 6. Men initiate "Open-Mouth Kissing" to transfer libido-boosting testosterone to their partner.
So when he's getting a little more aggressive, it's not just about his desire — he wants you to be a bit more amorous too. 7. Men are more than twice as likely. .to have sex with a bad kisser than are women. 8. When coy kisses Aren't Going To Cut It. .here's why you should let loose: Passionate
kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more
excited, and making it easier for you to reach orgasm. 9. Fifty-Four Percent of women. .between the ages of 18 and 24 say they've kissed another
girl. That number drops to 43 percent for those between 25 and 34. 10. During the middle ages people signed legal contracts. .by making an "X" on the
document and then kissing it to pledge their honor. That's how XX became shorthand for a
smooch. Today at 6:59p
Friday 17 June 2011
A Struggle
With each passing day the thoughts that things will get better becomes more of a fantasy.The sleepless nights,twitching,jerking and shaking when you lay down even when it isnt cold.Getting up panting and sweating even on the coldest of nights.When will it end,when will it stop.One day and one word changes you forever.Under a flight of stairs everything changed.The black clothing still vivid and fresh in your memory as if it just happen.Looking up with fear and longing.To hear that one word.Knowing how it felt,to be whole,to be happy.Dreading the day when it all happen.A day you cant forget,engraved into your mind,heart and soul for your whole entirety.You almost wish that the pain and hurt you felt before that day had never stopped.Wanting to almost never know the joy you once felt.Its so extreme that even the thought of getting close to the road that lead to that place and venue makes you choke,leaves you breathless and gives you a heart shattering feeling that makes you catatonic.If you hadnt known that feeling of bliss then maybe just maybe the darkness wouldnt be so bad.You saw the light and felt the warmth.And now you cant even see your own hands infront of your eyes and its so cold that your body wont move and yet the Grim Reaper eludes you.His Sythe wont come for you.He sits there and watches you with a certain uderstanding and sadness in his bottomless eyes.Regretfully he stands comes to you,touches your shoulder and says it is not your time.He turns and disappeard into emptiness.That means you must endure it all.What for?Why you?You pray each night it will end hope that you will feel the sun again,that your eyes will see and the blindness will be lifted.Those nights in your bed,in your head.Standing on the balcony,looking out of a window or staring from the roomtop.Fighting the compulsion to end it all with just one step,one move.You are surrounded by many and yet you are all alone.You look up and ask when will it end,screaming into the night with no other sounds than the echo of your own voice and the wind blowing.All forms of intoxication only giving temporary solace and as you sit there it all creeps back at you with its malice and vengence.Even when you want to stop it and finally jump to your end you cant because of the bonds that you made even though they only exsist as mere words you fear breaking beacuse if you do the nightmare will become YOU,and you will end up becoming the torment that has been sipping into your very bones and you will lose the small bit of humanity you still possess.
Tuesday 14 June 2011
IMPORTANT.PLEASE READ;HOW TO COMMENT ON THE BLOG
So I got comments that guy are not able to comment so I tweaked the settings a bit. So here goes it would be appreciated if you guys would be followers but it seems you can only follow if you using twitter,yahoo or have a google account.
At the bottom of each of the posts there should be a comment icon.Click on it.
There is an icon written "Comment as:" The profile to select is Name/Url. Write in your name,click continue,go up write your comment in the box and the click on post comment.
OR
Instead of picking the Name/Url you could pick Anonymous. Start by writing Your name in the comment so I know who it is,put down your thought and post it.
I hope that sounds good to you guys.1
At the bottom of each of the posts there should be a comment icon.Click on it.
There is an icon written "Comment as:" The profile to select is Name/Url. Write in your name,click continue,go up write your comment in the box and the click on post comment.
OR
Instead of picking the Name/Url you could pick Anonymous. Start by writing Your name in the comment so I know who it is,put down your thought and post it.
I hope that sounds good to you guys.1
Saturday 11 June 2011
Food for thought
What is death and when does it happen.Is it once one ceases to exist,when the body turns into ashes and all that is left are bones or when it is an individual is forgotten.We talk of some of the greats Leonardo De Vinci,Aristotle and Sigmund Freud as if they are still amongst us.In reality we are speaking of what they have contributed and brought into our lives.So how does when feel when they are alive but are as forgetable as a fly that zooms across us.Are they not also dead in a way,nothing more than a wall paper in this wonderus work of architect we call the world.Again I ask what is death!If one loses sight,faith,will,hope,the ability to love and empathise are they not also dead somehow?It would seem death has touched the very essence of their being.A crueler fate than the conventional death where someone is gone from the realm of the living.A walking body with no emotions or aspirations for tomorrow nothing more than the zombies we read of in books and see in movies.Death really is ambigious and inevitable and yet some seek it while others spend thei whole lives trying to cheat it.Even aging itself is part of death,death of ones youth but with it comes with experience and wisdom.So is death truely as horrible as we see it or a beggining to another adventure?It has fascinated as from the ages and yet it seems the mystics of old were closer to an answer than we are today.Life is defined with birth and death,we live only to die so should we not cherish the time inbetweena and all we can to reach our fullest?And yet their are those whose spirits have been beaten and pounded to nothingness and are no longer.What of those people can we really say they are alive and living or are they as dead as the rotten,decaying corpses since the days of old?Death!As old as time itself as revered as the Gods and talked about in all faiths a puzzling phenomenon as the Hell and Heaven gates.
Another thought
Has one ever wondred why is it those who preach or give inspirational talks are only those who have been down and out?Why is it if one has not been through something they can never truely understand what it is another person is going through.And yet that in itself is a double edge sword.There is one who gives hope to others, will stretch his hands and give warmth to any in need and yet they themselves have no one.Why is it so?As this was posed to them they said,"I believe in good, chances, redemption, love and hope not for myself but for everyone else because I am unworthy and undeserving." Its saddening to know that there are those who would bleed on something to keep it red and do anything it takes for others but for their own sake the world and life has twisted their very heart and soul into a lump of self doubt and pity and even when they do know this they still stay in the dark abyss they have sunk into since its the only world that seems real and the other with all the happiness and joy is nothing but a distant illusion.
Just A thought
How do we know when there is darkness or what we see is light.Is it cause life is a relative and one may not know one without the other or the two not intertwined.What of those who only know flitting moments of happiness and joy and the rest is sadness and misery.Is it fair for us to judge them or say they deserve what has happen to them or should we give them hope that things will get better?Maybe its true that we cant value all the good if we dont know the bad but what happens when the bad rips us apart and leaves a blackhole of nothingness within a being.Is it expected of them to remember the good that came along and just forfeit the pain and hurt they feel?Is it really capable to do this when one feels as if they are in mortal torment?Its hard to say which is right or if its fair that for us to know something that we must know its anti.Maybe Ying and Yang truely do exist but in this world where we live with things so fragile, beyond our direct influence : control and others unreal is it possible that a balance can exist so one may find inner harmony, serenity and peace or is it a mere illusion we have bestowed upon ourselves so we may survive instead of finding a way so as we may live truely.Maybe we may never find the answer to these questions.Do we really control our own fates or are we destined from birth what path we will choose because one cannot decide where they will be born or what kind of upbringing they may get and yet we are told we can make a choice.But arent those choices already made for us according to the options that are available?Does it not mean free will is also a word given to us just so we may not find our lives hopeless and we strive for more?Questions without answers and answers that give more questions.All one can do is try leave a day at a time and hope that whatever they do partake in or however they may find themselves that it is something that one may be able to handle and it will not overwhelm and swallow them whole into an abyss.In such times we as humans cling to the oldest of words that through the ages we have used inorder to make sense of things and not give up on this life.Faith.
Friday 10 June 2011
The whole looks issue
So this I know will bring me into alot of trouble but its just been thrown around me so much so that it seemed it was about time I shares my views and of those of my peers. (I beg ladies dont take this personally.I still love myself I dont want to end up dead).
Ok so here the deal is.In truth African men are bred and brought up to find and associate beauty with thickness and curves thats a fact.Although with modernization and influence of the western culture has made in a way the imagine that a size zero or thinness is beauty.Now my slim,slender and petite ladies,if that is how your body naturally is all well and good.We will love you abundantly as if.The problem comes with ladies who get it into their heads or are made to think that they have to look like a stick inorder to be beautiful and attractive.That aint so.Granted if the weight happens to be a health risk or inhibits you from enjoyimg your life or certain attributes of it then by all means take measures.
If you have watched the comedian Katt Williams I think he sums it best. a real nigga is still f***ing.
The whole concept of beauty is culturally dependant but in reality whether you thick and curvey or thin and slim, true beauty lies within.Ladies if a guy cant accept how you are physically and tries to mold you into this idea figure then drop his ass like a bad habit.Yes it is true that African societies have put emphasis on the whole curves and thickness but not all women are like that.Niggas accept her body as is.Most fuckers(yes you insecure unreal and fake male species) say this "only dogs go for bones men go for meat(curves)".Dont make her think she got to starve herself to look good for your dumb ass or make her think she has to feed herself half to death and when she looks like you want you end up leaving or hurting her.And brothers who have a criteria of women they look for you know with your whole boob,hip and waist size I tell you this proudly SCREW YOU.You got no right to call yourself a man.You still a boy who needs to grow up.A womans beauty is in the heart.Just cause she looks good dont mean she good on the inside.Just try gettimg to know the lady instead of writing her off just cause of how she looks.Think about.
ladies this applies to you too.Dont judge a book by its cover.Your idea of your ideal guy could be 6feet tall,dark,with a body who cheats,beats and treats you like crap while that 5.5foot guy,with balding hair and a bit of a belly will be your shield against everyone and everything,treat you like a delicate flower,make you feel like a queen and devote everything of his his being into pleasing you.
It has to be clarified here that my issue or the big issue is the way people and how society puts pressure or emphasis that a certain body type is considered as beauty.If looks is all that mattered then in some cultures and societies then Seal(The musician) would clearly have been said to have used witch craft to get Heidi Klum.My point is (since some people are still a bit too thick skulled and narrow minded to understand) that forget your cultural,society,peer or the in thing when it comes to the description of beauty and judge a person by whats inside.As in take the time and patience to find out about the person.Think about it in a literal sense.The books that we judge by the cover,you know those shinny ones that look nice and all,we read them and end up being disappointed and in true sense its those books that we overlook or think that are not worth our time are usually the highly valued and priced with words that reach into your very soul.
Think about it people.All that glitters aint gold.Find out what lies underneath the exterior.
Only a blindman knows true beauty for he sees with his heart not his eyes that could be easily deceived-Extra Terrestrial Mind Set
Jah Bless
Ok so here the deal is.In truth African men are bred and brought up to find and associate beauty with thickness and curves thats a fact.Although with modernization and influence of the western culture has made in a way the imagine that a size zero or thinness is beauty.Now my slim,slender and petite ladies,if that is how your body naturally is all well and good.We will love you abundantly as if.The problem comes with ladies who get it into their heads or are made to think that they have to look like a stick inorder to be beautiful and attractive.That aint so.Granted if the weight happens to be a health risk or inhibits you from enjoyimg your life or certain attributes of it then by all means take measures.
If you have watched the comedian Katt Williams I think he sums it best. a real nigga is still f***ing.
The whole concept of beauty is culturally dependant but in reality whether you thick and curvey or thin and slim, true beauty lies within.Ladies if a guy cant accept how you are physically and tries to mold you into this idea figure then drop his ass like a bad habit.Yes it is true that African societies have put emphasis on the whole curves and thickness but not all women are like that.Niggas accept her body as is.Most fuckers(yes you insecure unreal and fake male species) say this "only dogs go for bones men go for meat(curves)".Dont make her think she got to starve herself to look good for your dumb ass or make her think she has to feed herself half to death and when she looks like you want you end up leaving or hurting her.And brothers who have a criteria of women they look for you know with your whole boob,hip and waist size I tell you this proudly SCREW YOU.You got no right to call yourself a man.You still a boy who needs to grow up.A womans beauty is in the heart.Just cause she looks good dont mean she good on the inside.Just try gettimg to know the lady instead of writing her off just cause of how she looks.Think about.
ladies this applies to you too.Dont judge a book by its cover.Your idea of your ideal guy could be 6feet tall,dark,with a body who cheats,beats and treats you like crap while that 5.5foot guy,with balding hair and a bit of a belly will be your shield against everyone and everything,treat you like a delicate flower,make you feel like a queen and devote everything of his his being into pleasing you.
It has to be clarified here that my issue or the big issue is the way people and how society puts pressure or emphasis that a certain body type is considered as beauty.If looks is all that mattered then in some cultures and societies then Seal(The musician) would clearly have been said to have used witch craft to get Heidi Klum.My point is (since some people are still a bit too thick skulled and narrow minded to understand) that forget your cultural,society,peer or the in thing when it comes to the description of beauty and judge a person by whats inside.As in take the time and patience to find out about the person.Think about it in a literal sense.The books that we judge by the cover,you know those shinny ones that look nice and all,we read them and end up being disappointed and in true sense its those books that we overlook or think that are not worth our time are usually the highly valued and priced with words that reach into your very soul.
Think about it people.All that glitters aint gold.Find out what lies underneath the exterior.
Only a blindman knows true beauty for he sees with his heart not his eyes that could be easily deceived-Extra Terrestrial Mind Set
Jah Bless
Thursday 9 June 2011
One of those things
In the course of the past weeks a lot of interesting things have come out of the wood work. Most interesting is that some of my acquaintances and friends have been discussing the whole concept of what goes down in the bedroom. Now this just reminded me of a conversion I had with a female friend of mine sometime back and I quote what she said (people who have known me since August 2009 this happen before you). She said, “Every person is a potential good lay it’s just most are ignorant, stubborn or too lazy to be an amazing shag.” From when this was told to me till now I see what she means.
Simply put guys think all they got to do is stick there juniors into the woman, move back and forth and that’s all it takes to get her where she needs to be. WROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG. From what I have heard of the few ladies for them sex starts from the conversation you have with them. My dear brothers you got to understand without FOREPLAY then you are not doing the lady justice. And stop that ideology I got mine so she can get hers. That’s a load of BULLSHIT it your duty as a man to satisfy her if you don’t then you have no right to call yourself a man. A lil knowledge ladies and gentlemen the first nut for a guy is the most unreliable, fastest and single minded thing in this world. So ladies don’t complain he came first. Actually it’s a compliment the faster he comes cause technically speaking the sweeter the p**** the easier it is to bust a nut. I dare one guy to argue with this (guys who jerk off more than they get laid are not included). Brothers you better go down south (that’s If things down there are well kept) and do both yourself and her a favor and keep your stick and lil friends clean and trimmed or shaved cause it would be really inconsiderate for her to go down there and need a toothpick later to pick the hair out of her teeth. As well as don’t be lazy, find what makes her itch and how to scratch it. And guys trust me the clitoris can be your most significant weapon. FIND IT. At all costs and play with it like it’s the latest HALO, GOD OF WAR, FIFA, PRO EVOLUTION or newest toy/game you have. Trust it will be to your benefit.
Ladies just sitting there and spreading your legs doesn’t help. Sometimes the sex is bad because you don’t do shit except lay there and moan (which in some cases sounds like a sigh). Truth be told a man can have a woman who is as saintly as Mother Teresa in the street. BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUT when it comes to the bedroom, behind closed doors, within four walls you better know he wants him a woman who is freaky, nasty and will screw him like a slut. And as I advised the brothers I will tell you as well go down south (if it’s well kept and lube the stick if it’s in your hands and getting the “royal rubbing” though, chaffing him is not pretty or comfortable) and make sure you take care of your own nether regions. As well as don’t be lazy, find what makes him itch and how to scratch it.
Now comes the most crucial and simplest point to having an awesome life in the sex arena. Its one word and one word alone. COMMUNICATION. Talk to your partner about what you like to be done or you like to do and what satisfies you. STOP being hard headed to learning new things or think that you’re not good enough or that because of how you were brought up or the stereo type being your gender prohibits you or dictates how you should act on the bedroom. It’s YOUR CHOICE if you want to just have sex for the sake of sex or actually enjoy it to the fullest. (You need to respect the other person’s boundaries and never put them in an uncomfortable situation obviously.) Spice things up in the bedroom, try new things and always remember that it’s for the both of you to benefit and enjoy. Try different positions; read articles about sex and the such but most important have an open mind. Guys believe me when I tell you there is no higher or greater feeling in the world than when a woman is writhing in pleasure because of you and your efforts (especially if you haven’t but it in her yet. Oh yes you can give her pleasure and make her cum BEFORE you put junior in her.) And ladies correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t the look on a man’s face after you have ravished him senseless and he lays there speechless because of you; is it not amongst the most thrilling things out there? Explore your partner, Know yourself. Don’t be shy or reserved. Talk to them, give them a starting point of what you enjoy and like and work your way from there onwards. If they don’t want to listen or try things then tell them BYE cause there enough people out there who would bend over backwards to please you. True talk. ENJOY YOURSELVES to the fullest. One life to live people don’t make it a waste. Look back and what you have done instead of wondering what you could’ve been or what you didn’t do. Be real, be yourself, live life. One love.
Simply put guys think all they got to do is stick there juniors into the woman, move back and forth and that’s all it takes to get her where she needs to be. WROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG. From what I have heard of the few ladies for them sex starts from the conversation you have with them. My dear brothers you got to understand without FOREPLAY then you are not doing the lady justice. And stop that ideology I got mine so she can get hers. That’s a load of BULLSHIT it your duty as a man to satisfy her if you don’t then you have no right to call yourself a man. A lil knowledge ladies and gentlemen the first nut for a guy is the most unreliable, fastest and single minded thing in this world. So ladies don’t complain he came first. Actually it’s a compliment the faster he comes cause technically speaking the sweeter the p**** the easier it is to bust a nut. I dare one guy to argue with this (guys who jerk off more than they get laid are not included). Brothers you better go down south (that’s If things down there are well kept) and do both yourself and her a favor and keep your stick and lil friends clean and trimmed or shaved cause it would be really inconsiderate for her to go down there and need a toothpick later to pick the hair out of her teeth. As well as don’t be lazy, find what makes her itch and how to scratch it. And guys trust me the clitoris can be your most significant weapon. FIND IT. At all costs and play with it like it’s the latest HALO, GOD OF WAR, FIFA, PRO EVOLUTION or newest toy/game you have. Trust it will be to your benefit.
Ladies just sitting there and spreading your legs doesn’t help. Sometimes the sex is bad because you don’t do shit except lay there and moan (which in some cases sounds like a sigh). Truth be told a man can have a woman who is as saintly as Mother Teresa in the street. BUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUT when it comes to the bedroom, behind closed doors, within four walls you better know he wants him a woman who is freaky, nasty and will screw him like a slut. And as I advised the brothers I will tell you as well go down south (if it’s well kept and lube the stick if it’s in your hands and getting the “royal rubbing” though, chaffing him is not pretty or comfortable) and make sure you take care of your own nether regions. As well as don’t be lazy, find what makes him itch and how to scratch it.
Now comes the most crucial and simplest point to having an awesome life in the sex arena. Its one word and one word alone. COMMUNICATION. Talk to your partner about what you like to be done or you like to do and what satisfies you. STOP being hard headed to learning new things or think that you’re not good enough or that because of how you were brought up or the stereo type being your gender prohibits you or dictates how you should act on the bedroom. It’s YOUR CHOICE if you want to just have sex for the sake of sex or actually enjoy it to the fullest. (You need to respect the other person’s boundaries and never put them in an uncomfortable situation obviously.) Spice things up in the bedroom, try new things and always remember that it’s for the both of you to benefit and enjoy. Try different positions; read articles about sex and the such but most important have an open mind. Guys believe me when I tell you there is no higher or greater feeling in the world than when a woman is writhing in pleasure because of you and your efforts (especially if you haven’t but it in her yet. Oh yes you can give her pleasure and make her cum BEFORE you put junior in her.) And ladies correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t the look on a man’s face after you have ravished him senseless and he lays there speechless because of you; is it not amongst the most thrilling things out there? Explore your partner, Know yourself. Don’t be shy or reserved. Talk to them, give them a starting point of what you enjoy and like and work your way from there onwards. If they don’t want to listen or try things then tell them BYE cause there enough people out there who would bend over backwards to please you. True talk. ENJOY YOURSELVES to the fullest. One life to live people don’t make it a waste. Look back and what you have done instead of wondering what you could’ve been or what you didn’t do. Be real, be yourself, live life. One love.
Sunday 5 June 2011
The Start
So this is how this whole blog thing got started.The name for the blog came from my so called friends (the clutz staying in RE2) convienced me to do this blog thing and came up with the name.Im guessing its because it was deemed my mind is Alien.In the sense that I think "differently" in the way I conceptualize and perceive things.Thus with an Alien mind its only natural that Id have an Extra Terrestrial Mind Set.
This concept of having a blog happen on the night Man United lost the Uefa Champions League and yes I am a United fan but it’s been a while since the game so people please spare me all the talk about losing. I have had enough. I’m just giving a background to how all this whole blog thing came about. WARNING/DISCLAIMER the views here are either my own or of people I have encountered in my life. UNLESS and I repeat UNLESS I mention someone by name in reference to what I am writing then this shit isn’t about you. I am straight forward, not tactful and I call a spade a spade. I don’t have the patience to sugar coat things and I write whatever is on my mind, be it a joke I heard, a poem I wrote, something I saw or “sexual intercourse” (which depending on my mood and what I’m talking about can be making love or simply screwing someone’s brains into mush), even if it may seem obscene or vulgar to the reader so in advice I warn people I can get very graphic and curse like a drunken sailor from the olden ages. If you are still interested after reading thus far then please continue. If by now you have drawn a very nasty and ugly picture of me then I suggest you fuck off because shit will only get worse from now on. I do ask though not to personally attack me in your comments because you really don’t want me insulting you personally especially if I know who you are because I have been told I need to wash my mouth out with acid so you can imagine. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED. So for the past 3weeks or so I have been staying at my friends’. Well technically it’s me, two of my guy friends and the girlfriend to one of them (who I must admit if she dies and is not made a saint then the big man upstairs (aka God/Allah) and I will have a problem). Yes I’m Christian, Roman Catholic to be exact but as far as I’m concerned and considering how religiously diverse my own family is, it doesn’t matter what religion a person is cause we all at the core believe in a higher power and a sentinel being so hey in my book we all the same. Regardless of race, religion, tribe and all those things. And I’m not a bias person. After living the life I have and the things I have been through and seen I believe in two things, One man’s meat is another man’s poison (thanks Mum for telling me this) and To each his own (Kalashnikov this was from you I thank you as well for your contribution). And who the fuck am I to judge anyone else anyway isn’t it?
This concept of having a blog happen on the night Man United lost the Uefa Champions League and yes I am a United fan but it’s been a while since the game so people please spare me all the talk about losing. I have had enough. I’m just giving a background to how all this whole blog thing came about. WARNING/DISCLAIMER the views here are either my own or of people I have encountered in my life. UNLESS and I repeat UNLESS I mention someone by name in reference to what I am writing then this shit isn’t about you. I am straight forward, not tactful and I call a spade a spade. I don’t have the patience to sugar coat things and I write whatever is on my mind, be it a joke I heard, a poem I wrote, something I saw or “sexual intercourse” (which depending on my mood and what I’m talking about can be making love or simply screwing someone’s brains into mush), even if it may seem obscene or vulgar to the reader so in advice I warn people I can get very graphic and curse like a drunken sailor from the olden ages. If you are still interested after reading thus far then please continue. If by now you have drawn a very nasty and ugly picture of me then I suggest you fuck off because shit will only get worse from now on. I do ask though not to personally attack me in your comments because you really don’t want me insulting you personally especially if I know who you are because I have been told I need to wash my mouth out with acid so you can imagine. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED. So for the past 3weeks or so I have been staying at my friends’. Well technically it’s me, two of my guy friends and the girlfriend to one of them (who I must admit if she dies and is not made a saint then the big man upstairs (aka God/Allah) and I will have a problem). Yes I’m Christian, Roman Catholic to be exact but as far as I’m concerned and considering how religiously diverse my own family is, it doesn’t matter what religion a person is cause we all at the core believe in a higher power and a sentinel being so hey in my book we all the same. Regardless of race, religion, tribe and all those things. And I’m not a bias person. After living the life I have and the things I have been through and seen I believe in two things, One man’s meat is another man’s poison (thanks Mum for telling me this) and To each his own (Kalashnikov this was from you I thank you as well for your contribution). And who the fuck am I to judge anyone else anyway isn’t it?
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