Just A thought

How do we know when there is darkness or what we see is light.Is it cause life is a relative and one may not know one without the other or the two not intertwined.What of those who only know flitting moments of happiness and joy and the rest is sadness and misery.Is it fair for us to judge them or say they deserve what has happen to them or should we give them hope that things will get better?Maybe its true that we cant value all the good if we dont know the bad but what happens when the bad rips us apart and leaves a blackhole of nothingness within a being.Is it expected of them to remember the good that came along and just forfeit the pain and hurt they feel?Is it really capable to do this when one feels as if they are in mortal torment?Its hard to say which is right or if its fair that for us to know something that we must know its anti.Maybe Ying and Yang truely do exist but in this world where we live with things so fragile, beyond our direct influence : control and others unreal is it possible that a balance can exist so one may find inner harmony, serenity and peace or is it a mere illusion we have bestowed upon ourselves so we may survive instead of finding a way so as we may live truely.Maybe we may never find the answer to these questions.Do we really control our own fates or are we destined from birth what path we will choose because one cannot decide where they will be born or what kind of upbringing they may get and yet we are told we can make a choice.But arent those choices already made for us according to the options that are available?Does it not mean free will is also a word given to us just so we may not find our lives hopeless and we strive for more?Questions without answers and answers that give more questions.All one can do is try leave a day at a time and hope that whatever they do partake in or however they may find themselves that it is something that one may be able to handle and it will not overwhelm and swallow them whole into an abyss.In such times we as humans cling to the oldest of words that through the ages we have used inorder to make sense of things and not give up on this life.Faith.