The whole looks issue

So this I know will bring me into alot of trouble but its just been thrown around me so much so that it seemed it was about time I shares my views and of those of my peers. (I beg ladies dont take this personally.I still love myself I dont want to end up dead).
Ok so here the deal is.In truth African men are bred and brought up to find and associate beauty with thickness and curves thats a fact.Although with modernization and influence of the western culture has made in a way the imagine that a size zero or thinness is beauty.Now my slim,slender and petite ladies,if that is how your body naturally is all well and good.We will love you abundantly as if.The problem comes with ladies who get it into their heads or are made to think that they have to look like a stick inorder to be beautiful and attractive.That aint so.Granted if the weight happens to be a health risk or inhibits you from enjoyimg your life or certain attributes of it then by all means take measures.
If you have watched the comedian Katt Williams I think he sums it best. a real nigga is still f***ing.
The whole concept of beauty is culturally dependant but in reality whether you thick and curvey or thin and slim, true beauty lies within.Ladies if a guy cant accept how you are physically and tries to mold you into this idea figure then drop his ass like a bad habit.Yes it is true that African societies have put emphasis on the whole curves and thickness but not all women are like that.Niggas accept her body as is.Most fuckers(yes you insecure unreal and fake male species) say this "only dogs go for bones men go for meat(curves)".Dont make her think she got to starve herself to look good for your dumb ass or make her think she has to feed herself half to death and when she looks like you want you end up leaving or hurting her.And brothers who have a criteria of women they look for you know with your whole boob,hip and waist size I tell you this proudly SCREW YOU.You got no right to call yourself a man.You still a boy who needs to grow up.A womans beauty is in the heart.Just cause she looks good dont mean she good on the inside.Just try gettimg to know the lady instead of writing her off just cause of how she looks.Think about.
ladies this applies to you too.Dont judge a book by its cover.Your idea of your ideal guy could be 6feet tall,dark,with a body who cheats,beats and treats you like crap while that 5.5foot guy,with balding hair and a bit of a belly will be your shield against everyone and everything,treat you like a delicate flower,make you feel like a queen and devote everything of his his being into pleasing you.
It has to be clarified here that my issue or the big issue is the way people and how society puts pressure or emphasis that a certain body type is considered as beauty.If looks is all that mattered then in some cultures and societies then Seal(The musician) would clearly have been said to have used witch craft to get Heidi Klum.My point is (since some people are still a bit too thick skulled and narrow minded to understand) that forget your cultural,society,peer or the in thing when it comes to the description of beauty and judge a person by whats inside.As in take the time and patience to find out about the person.Think about it in a literal sense.The books that we judge by the cover,you know those shinny ones that look nice and all,we read them and end up being disappointed and in true sense its those books that we overlook or think that are not worth our time are usually the highly valued and priced with words that reach into your very soul.
Think about it people.All that glitters aint gold.Find out what lies underneath the exterior.
Only a blindman knows true beauty for he sees with his heart not his eyes that could be easily deceived-Extra Terrestrial Mind Set
Jah Bless